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What matters the most , Love or trust?
« on: January 01, 2008, 09:18:16 PM »
hi guys n chics

Most of us. believe in love and forgetting that trust is the foundation of most relationships .

how can you love someone without trusting them? ???

if we love someone why are we jealous of others? ???

why are we insecure? ???

why cant we love and believe in trust ???

We must act only when we see P kissing Y passionately ;D or they are making out . than we know its the cross roads .

whats ur take on this ;D

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #1 on: January 02, 2008, 09:37:52 AM »
thank you. if anybody will betray your trust then you wont love them again. Without love and trust there is no relationship and it will never work.

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #2 on: January 02, 2008, 03:04:53 PM »
For any relationship to have a good head there must be trust in it. Without trust its wack.......its not it.

Trust is very important and it is a yardstick for measuring the strength of a relationship.
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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #3 on: January 02, 2008, 07:27:24 PM »
Trust can hurt but cant kill love. Love is indestructible. You can injure and wound love but you cant erase it.
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Sometimes if you love so much, you wouldnt even see the cheating (I dont wanna know)l, love endures (whatever, no matter what)
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Love is a permanent decision, when you CHOOSE to love someone, you choose to love them completely, regardless what they do to you.
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If you love someone and youve ever found it hard to forgive them, then check it, you just don't love them - maybe lust.
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A good example is the love between you and your mother.
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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #4 on: January 02, 2008, 08:51:16 PM »
Word, girl, word... well said.

Mother's love remains the best ever and you dare not compare it to "sexual" love. Hate it or love it, you can't find it elsewhere.

Love is more important. Trust, Respect, Sharing and Caring are other important factors.
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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #5 on: January 02, 2008, 11:03:18 PM »
When talking about the most important thing between the three, it's love because that overcomes every other thing.

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #6 on: January 03, 2008, 10:51:16 AM »
Love is patient; love is kind; it does not envy; it does not boast; it is not proud. It is not rude; it is not self-seeking; it is not easily angered; it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

  Love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.

Dear rubminders, i will go for love cos its all that matters to me,God really love us,if God doesn't love us,certainly we wouldn't have been here today.

I lives only for love, love of my mom, dad,bros,my friends exp.xsi and my lovely girl Balkis

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #7 on: January 03, 2008, 11:55:04 AM »
Love is in the air!  :D
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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #8 on: January 03, 2008, 01:42:10 PM »
Jammie baba, now I see why you couldn't let go of that girlie.

It's not a bad decision.

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #9 on: January 03, 2008, 02:20:14 PM »
LMAO @ Jamo!

@ Topic

It's possible to love without trust. What happens when people betray the trust u've got in them? U keep lovin them but U can't trust em.

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #10 on: January 03, 2008, 03:11:41 PM »
That's true. love could be without trust.

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #11 on: January 03, 2008, 05:48:37 PM »
Nice one coming from you guys
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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #12 on: January 04, 2008, 06:39:01 AM »
Mukina, now what the heck is your answer? :D
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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #13 on: January 04, 2008, 11:42:01 AM »
Wait for her she's coming
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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #14 on: January 04, 2008, 12:09:26 PM »
In my own point of view, let's face reality, there is a limit to how much love can endure. You can not keep doing the same thing over and over again expecting someone to forgive. At the point when trust is gone, love is divided and gradually depreciates.
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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #15 on: January 04, 2008, 12:32:23 PM »
Both is important.. If u love someone and u don't trust that person. then check urself
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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #16 on: January 04, 2008, 12:37:42 PM »
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In my own point of view, let's face reality, there is a limit to how much love can endure. You can not keep doing the same thing over and over again expecting someone to forgive. At the point when trust is gone, love is divided and gradually depreciates

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #17 on: January 04, 2008, 01:10:30 PM »
Freddie,i dey feel u. u understands ma feeling

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #18 on: January 04, 2008, 02:57:29 PM »
Hmmmmmm.....birds of d same feathers
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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #19 on: January 04, 2008, 08:19:04 PM »
Penthouse eh ;D

i have seen all the replies great great ;D

@ topic
it is never possible to love someone who DONT trust.
How can you claim " i love you" when you know deep down in you, its just a farce? ???
no matter what people say, \love is blind, love is black, love is blue. without trust nothing works.
Trust allows you to see the other person is a different light

allows you to share your dreams, thoughts and fears

lets you see a new lease to life

you can be content in having someone you know , you can always count on.

If you do not trust someone change the love you feel for them to LUST ;) it defines it better .

even marriages, ordinary friendships are built on trust. You cannot love without trusting.

Trust comes first in everything ;)
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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #20 on: January 04, 2008, 08:34:40 PM »
After the Gospel of Muki (or should I say Epistle?), it remains undisputed that love overcomes lack of trust. love just keeps you on till you eventually bring out the trust or survive without it.

I know some people on this thread are Muslims. I would have cited the case of God loving the world so much that he gave his only begotten son while we were yet sinners. But, then, love is what keeps you live irrespective of your daily, hourly, minutely ??? or secondly ??? ::) sin. I hope someone adds those words to the Dictionary soonest.

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #21 on: January 04, 2008, 09:15:03 PM »
Love overcomes what? ???

can you love someone without trusting them? ???
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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #22 on: January 05, 2008, 01:03:14 PM »
Mukina, read kaydee's version, it says, you can love without trusting.Love and trust are two different things.

Some women still DEEPLY LOVE their cheater husbands if not more than they loved them before they started cheating...
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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #23 on: January 05, 2008, 08:35:38 PM »
thats rubbish >:(
in most cases its fear and not love,A wife will fear divorce, scandal  the loss of security and the like, the reason they turn a blind eye to their hubby's activities.
you all know love is never possible without trust .
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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #24 on: January 05, 2008, 08:39:03 PM »
how can u luv someone without trust? if there's something like luv without trust then i don't know what luv is. luv is something that grows with time btw 2 people and the basic foundation is trust

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #25 on: January 05, 2008, 08:48:08 PM »
look guys, to love is to trust but to trust is not necessarily to love cos one can love a person no matter who or wht a person is,whether trustworthy or not.                                                                                                 remember guys love is unconditional                     

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #26 on: January 05, 2008, 08:55:40 PM »
Guys, in real sense, one can't truly comletely trust someone except God cos whoever does so is a fool. No matter how u love somebody, there's going to be an element of doubt or mistrust cos we're humans

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #27 on: January 05, 2008, 10:39:22 PM »
Guys, in real sense, one can't truly comletely trust someone except God cos whoever does so is a fool. No matter how u love somebody, there's going to be an element of doubt or mistrust cos we're humans
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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #28 on: January 15, 2008, 11:13:02 AM »
.both . . .but trust should be dominant

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #29 on: January 15, 2008, 12:35:35 PM »
What's the difference between trust and loyalty?
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