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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #30 on: January 15, 2008, 04:13:51 PM »
In my own point of view, let's face reality, there is a limit to how much love can endure. You can not keep doing the same thing over and over again expecting someone to forgive. At the point when trust is gone, love is divided and gradually depreciates.
this person says it all,i think it has to do with personal or real life experience and not just mere fact(s)
the moment you stop trusting someone be it relationship or brotherly love due to betrayal of trust love is gone completely and building up one takes time.

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #31 on: January 20, 2008, 07:02:05 PM »
Of course trust is more important cos, its simply is s foundation on which you build love. And dis goes to u, dadp007, how can u say a virgin is no treasure? Well, i want you to stop thinking that way and start respecting a female virgin who has overcome all temptation just to b whole and to b known to just 1 man.

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #32 on: January 20, 2008, 10:25:26 PM »
Preach it gal ;D
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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #33 on: January 21, 2008, 02:38:30 PM »
love is more important if not why is a black marrying a white, trust is not the issue im sure.

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #34 on: January 21, 2008, 09:36:55 PM »
And dis goes to u, dadp007, how can u say a virgin is no treasure?
Are u sure i really said that cos i know it is not easy to be that so just take it easy

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #35 on: January 28, 2008, 12:06:44 AM »
its been a long time miss you people
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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #36 on: January 28, 2008, 12:11:47 AM »
Miss u too  ::) lol

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #37 on: February 01, 2008, 04:36:48 PM »
.... I believe they are equally important in a relationship.

If you love someone without trusting the person especially wen u know he or she is a flirt, the relationship might not last. Although we all know the proverb that say "Love conquers all things".... including infidelity?????

if your patner kips mal - treating you, cheating on you and kips doing all the wrong things and you kip shouting luv........ sorry to ur case..

At the same time, if you trust someone, yet you don't love the person, wat can i say???? the relationship  might no work out well.... it would probably be one - sided.

As 4 me...... a large chunk of Love with a massive size of trust will sort your relationship out just fine
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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #38 on: February 01, 2008, 04:39:43 PM »
love matters the most. Shikennah!

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #39 on: February 01, 2008, 04:43:18 PM »
?? Shike true true.....

i disagree
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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #40 on: February 01, 2008, 05:27:25 PM »
Why the disagreement?

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #41 on: February 01, 2008, 07:06:13 PM »
Tweet
you are wasting ur time on this guys ;D
fred, Dadp.Penthouse and kaydee
they all beleive that love matters the most .

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #42 on: February 02, 2008, 12:07:18 AM »
@ Tweet,

Dat large chunk of .... na inside hollywood and nollywood only (i'm pessimistic, nor vex)
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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #43 on: February 07, 2008, 04:23:16 AM »
Bothi'm in the season of both ;D
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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #44 on: February 13, 2008, 02:22:44 PM »
Trust matters a lot in a relationship. It stands as a pillar to any successful relationship. It is the backbone of a stable union.
!!!Until you accept your failure as final then are you finally a failure!!!

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #45 on: February 13, 2008, 08:33:19 PM »
Meks *serious clapping*

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well said ;)
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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #46 on: February 14, 2008, 02:03:37 AM »
Love without trust is a Game........Are you Game???
Woman without her man is nothing!

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #47 on: February 14, 2008, 01:14:39 PM »
"Trust can hurt but cant kill love. Love is indestructible. You can injure and wound love but you cant erase it.
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Sometimes if you love so much, you wouldnt even see the cheating (I dont wanna know)l, love endures (whatever, no matter what)
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Love is a permanent decision, when you CHOOSE to love someone, you choose to love them completely, regardless what they do to you.
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If you love someone and youve ever found it hard to forgive them, then check it, you just don't love them - maybe lust.
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A good example is the love between you and your mother.
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It me.BTNY
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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #48 on: February 14, 2008, 01:23:25 PM »
[True love involves lot of trust]U cant love some1 u don't trust.its purely natural cos love gets extinguished in the absence of trust.

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #49 on: February 23, 2008, 10:38:22 AM »
Trust trust trust

It is very important. There cant be love without trust.
!!!Until you accept your failure as final then are you finally a failure!!!

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #50 on: February 23, 2008, 11:17:37 AM »
Dats true

"I love my guy but i dont trust him".......

Could dis be love???
Woman without her man is nothing!

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #51 on: February 23, 2008, 01:17:18 PM »
Women love anything, I'll continue to say that women naturally do not really know what they want.

A woman can keep bragging about marrying Vin Diesel yet end up with Obasanjo.
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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #52 on: February 24, 2008, 02:28:18 PM »
Guys know what they want......but will like to have at least two choices....that is

A; one who makes the bed

B; one who makes the house
Woman without her man is nothing!

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #53 on: February 25, 2008, 10:26:14 PM »
I'm so amazed with the way pple think this days.... love is over/underated.....

1. Love is not blind (cant speak for anyone else though)
2. Its eyeballs are very big.
3. There are some things I cannot tolerate even when the love is there
4. Trust is the key thing for me
5. It is easier to love someone you trust than someone you don't trust
6. I'll rather date someone that I trust and do not love than date someone I love and do not trust because most times we think we are in love, we are infatuated. Love does not spring forth in one day, it needs to be watered to grow.

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #54 on: February 26, 2008, 11:00:23 AM »
So when u talk about luv, do u mean infactuation?

If u mean the real luv. i think trust should go along with it


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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #55 on: February 26, 2008, 08:47:48 PM »
trust and love are two different things..... you can be sooo in love wit someone and yet u know d person is a flirt......

Love is not infatuation.
also, love and trust can co-exist. they do not necessarily depend on each other.
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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #56 on: February 29, 2008, 03:07:10 AM »
They do tweet. True love depends on trust.
!!!Until you accept your failure as final then are you finally a failure!!!

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #57 on: January 01, 2009, 08:52:05 PM »
Both matters o jere
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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #58 on: January 03, 2009, 04:22:16 AM »
@ Topic. luv matters most.
trust can fail u but true love never fails
its harder 2 trust sum1 dan it is 2 love sum1
trust is dependent on a person's actions; love is unconditional.
u can trust a person 2 much; u can neva hav 2 much love.
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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #59 on: January 03, 2009, 04:26:35 AM »
Na demo. Oya go on  ;D