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what matters the most?

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Offline lizzie

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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #60 on: January 03, 2009, 08:17:45 AM »
Lol...freddie
Sweetsoul.. wat if d love is not true love nko...
But if u love sm1 and don't trust them.. wat's d point of d love then.. i tink both complements each other but love comes first
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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #61 on: January 03, 2009, 09:54:19 AM »
well, love is pointless if its not true love.
derz nothing like fake love...could be lust, infatuation, pretense, perseverance, etc; but it cant be called love.

i really dont belive u can trust someone unconditionally.
for example, i love ma mother 2 bits but der are certain things i wouldn trust ha with & der are certain things id bet ma life she wouldn do.
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ma mum would say she trusts ma dad with any amount of money in d world but not a pot of fried meat lol
if u truly have a transparent relationship, its impossible to totally trust someone.
if u dont have somethin u dont trust him/her with, ure probably decieving urselves & marriage will open ur eyes he he

pls note dat i'm not jus talkin about trustin ur man wit another woman etc.
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Re: What matters the most , Love or trust?
« Reply #62 on: January 03, 2009, 03:26:57 PM »
Lol...freddie
Sweetsoul.. wat if d love is not true love nko...
But if u love sm1 and don't trust them.. wat's d point of d love then.. i tink both complements each other but love comes first
Lizzie mama, na lie o. Every love has truth (or sincerity) inscribed (embedded) within. If it doesn't then it is an intentional grammartical misadministration (strategy in this context) to exploit the victim. Jack seeing how good a prey Jane would be says, "I love you" at first sight (even if it is not at first sight). He could be fair enough to say "I like you". However, today's fans of this word may not blamed as some have grown to sincerely think "love" is perfect synonym for "like" or "lust", or let's say its a more subtle way of saying "I'm filled with lust for you".

Lizzie mama, havene's you hear of I no dey Shame by Djinee (listen or download here: http://www.esnips.com/doc/2a5623e1-f1ec-4631-86c7-ba9b9f1c201a/I-no-dey-shame--Djinee ) The story line is a simple example of love (not agape though), when 'the lover' does not care about the weakness of 'the loved' (in this instance, a drug addict as depicted by the video of the song). Then, trust will be automatic and when there is no trust, love will endure the errors (the 'lover' won't be ashamed or mind of 'the loved' shameful habits or errors respectively.
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