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Re: Should your spouse know everything about your past?
« Reply #30 on: March 06, 2008, 10:52:57 PM »
With all these ur explainations now

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Re: Should your spouse know everything about your past?
« Reply #31 on: March 06, 2008, 11:10:55 PM »
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Re: Should your spouse know everything about your past?
« Reply #32 on: March 09, 2008, 12:42:52 PM »
yes, it is better for your spouse to know your past than knowing your present. ur preesent will only talk of ur fulture.
if you dont have a psat u can never av a present. if u trully love ur spouse, let him know more about you thnan any other person.

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Re: Should your spouse know everything about your past?
« Reply #33 on: March 09, 2008, 12:47:14 PM »
yes of with thiis simple explanation

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Re: Should your spouse know everything about your past?
« Reply #34 on: March 09, 2008, 02:15:37 PM »
well at the initial stage he shud kno the basics.with time u shud tell him other stuffs. before u get married you should have told him everything. that way no one creeps in from no where trying to make either of you see reasons why you shudnt be together. how would it feel if someone walks up to my future husband and tells him " oh , she's never had a good reputation" and he goes "I KNOW!!!!!" men dats ELA of the highest other. jokes apart, it'll make sence to lethim in on ur past, what would be would be, if he is urs he would stay not minding how BAD your past might have been.
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Re: Should your spouse know everything about your past?
« Reply #35 on: March 09, 2008, 11:26:22 PM »
Zaynies i gbadun u o, but how easy is this u have said

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Re: Should your spouse know everything about your past?
« Reply #36 on: March 11, 2008, 08:29:23 PM »
i told my boyfrend everything about me two months after we started dating, i believed he loved me and he shud be able to cope with whatever i might have done in my past. not necesirily things that have to do with my sex life. trust me!!!! and even after i told him he still stayed with me. he always says sumthing that no matter how long the truth will come out.a yoruba proverb says " bii iro ba lo, logun oodun ........" cant remember the remaining. lol
bottom line some day before its too late let him in on ur past.
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Re: Should your spouse know everything about your past?
« Reply #37 on: March 11, 2008, 10:11:36 PM »
 :D

for where?
thats why its called past jo :P
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Re: Should your spouse know everything about your past?
« Reply #38 on: March 12, 2008, 08:33:39 PM »
u be olodo before.. wetin u kno
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Re: Should your spouse know everything about your past?
« Reply #39 on: March 12, 2008, 11:33:13 PM »
Just leave her cos she knows every

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Re: Should your spouse know everything about your past?
« Reply #40 on: March 13, 2008, 08:47:52 PM »
says who????
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Re: Should your spouse know everything about your past?
« Reply #41 on: March 13, 2008, 11:02:48 PM »
 ???
come zaynie na  me u dey use all ur fingers abi na mouth yab? :P
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Re: Should your spouse know everything about your past?
« Reply #42 on: March 14, 2008, 02:31:19 AM »
I don leave two of una

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Re: Should your spouse know everything about your past?
« Reply #43 on: March 14, 2008, 09:39:21 AM »
Back to topic:

Should your past see your closet? ;D
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Re: Should your spouse know everything about your past?
« Reply #44 on: March 14, 2008, 01:21:01 PM »
Yes, the world is a small place what goes around comes around, in marriage trust is a vita tool that binds.

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Re: Should your spouse know everything about your past?
« Reply #45 on: March 14, 2008, 11:58:43 PM »
no

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Re: Should your spouse know everything about your past?
« Reply #46 on: March 15, 2008, 01:36:48 AM »
Heir of the mother, why do you think no is the answer?

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Re: Should your spouse know everything about your past?
« Reply #47 on: March 15, 2008, 01:16:53 PM »
???
come zaynie na  me u dey use all ur fingers abi na mouth yab? :P



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Re: Should your spouse know everything about your past?
« Reply #48 on: March 15, 2008, 02:51:40 PM »
Its only babies that will be telling a woman about their past affairs,the bible says old things have passed away,behold they have become new. i.e. forget about the past and move on with your life.
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Re: Should your spouse know everything about your past?
« Reply #49 on: March 16, 2008, 01:41:34 PM »
yeah rite!!!!!!!! :P
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Re: Should your spouse know everything about your past?
« Reply #50 on: March 19, 2008, 05:36:12 PM »
Old things dont pass away until you have made a confession bout it.

Open the closet, let it all out dats y its called past not future its gone forever but the memories of it will continue to linger. Dont let your conscience haunt you once its all out you'll feel the relief
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Re: Should your spouse know everything about your past?
« Reply #51 on: March 21, 2008, 12:00:21 PM »
WHEN THEY SAID OLD THINGS THEY DIDNT MEAN IT IN DAT CONTEXT PASTOR. when you in a relationship with someone and you see that it is hitting the NEXT level. u have to clean out your closet. like i said earlier if events of ur past shud creep thier ugly heads out. u can be sure dat he will have your back. but in as much as those things havent been mentioned its more trouble aand would cause more trouble. a yoruba proverb says ko sii ase gbe ase pamo lko waa. ( op i got it) ::) ::) ::)
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Re: Should your spouse know everything about your past?
« Reply #52 on: March 23, 2008, 02:07:18 AM »
you try small. ;D
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Re: Should your spouse know everything about your past?
« Reply #53 on: March 23, 2008, 08:56:10 AM »
Dont mind pastor, that was just a biblical excuse for bad things people do

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Re: Should your spouse know everything about your past?
« Reply #54 on: March 23, 2008, 06:24:01 PM »
fikky u kno am goooooooooooood 8) 8)
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Re: Should your spouse know everything about your past?
« Reply #55 on: March 23, 2008, 07:43:04 PM »
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« Reply #56 on: March 25, 2008, 11:06:00 AM »
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Re: Should your spouse know everything about your past?
« Reply #57 on: March 25, 2008, 11:48:04 AM »
Its only babies that will be telling a woman about their past affairs,the bible says old things have passed away,behold they have become new. i.e. forget about the past and move on with your life.
Pastor pls tell us what adults should say, cos I think we are talking about adults. ;D ;D ;D

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« Reply #58 on: March 25, 2008, 12:00:38 PM »
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Re: Should your spouse know everything about your past?
« Reply #59 on: March 26, 2008, 01:10:20 PM »
Yes really i do thk ur spouse shud knw evry, cos it mit just b dat ur frmer nxt door neighbor of urs who forcd u to sin was onc his very gud frend.