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Having ur spouse abroad, How good is it?
« on: March 05, 2008, 12:52:20 AM »
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These days u see guys huzzling abroad but with their spouse in their home country colecting the dollars and the pounds while they complement it with emotional support of other guys closer to them, this is becoming very rampart now that th eworld is becoming a global village, but is this a good thing for the two involved?
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Re: Having ur spouse abroad, How good is it?
« Reply #1 on: March 05, 2008, 01:37:08 PM »
Of course, na Abu money we take dey welcome Abu.

Seeing is believing.

Out of sight is out of mind.

The closer the better.

What is good for the goose is good for the "gander" ;D  (fcuk sauce)

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Re: Having ur spouse abroad, How good is it?
« Reply #2 on: March 05, 2008, 04:24:42 PM »
men its freaking difficult i must tell u,
n is worse when u feel ur possition is unsecure.
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Re: Having ur spouse abroad, How good is it?
« Reply #3 on: March 05, 2008, 04:29:45 PM »
Position? Believe me, even when the spouse is here (especially for the ladies), it's not secure!

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Re: Having ur spouse abroad, How good is it?
« Reply #4 on: March 05, 2008, 06:12:29 PM »
how can i have a spouse abroad when am not a dummy.
if i said i love her i do so we move together anywhere i go
i cant let other guys take advantage of me lailai.
for me i love to have my chic around me always.money or no money
we must be together.

me i cant these days that must women are not so dependable. ??? ???

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Re: Having ur spouse abroad, How good is it?
« Reply #5 on: March 05, 2008, 06:18:54 PM »
it depend on love and understanding and maturity

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Re: Having ur spouse abroad, How good is it?
« Reply #6 on: March 05, 2008, 09:59:53 PM »
Hope dis penthome is human and not a virus? ??? ???

I would not advise anyone to have a long distance relationship.. if you can handle it... Good for you...

I agree with Omotola. Although its not an easy task, if you are in it, it requires trust, love and maturity.
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Re: Having ur spouse abroad, How good is it?
« Reply #7 on: March 05, 2008, 11:44:36 PM »
Long distance relationships are a no no o .

its a lot more complicated . you can bear for few months  . then the human side kicks in and unnecessary fights start ,  and it ends dere :D
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Re: Having ur spouse abroad, How good is it?
« Reply #8 on: March 06, 2008, 08:03:44 AM »
Muki, so what's up with Maggie ???  ;D

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Re: Having ur spouse abroad, How good is it?
« Reply #9 on: March 06, 2008, 01:53:22 PM »
If you want a successful distance relationship,it must not start over the sea, i mean you must have seen each other eye to eye,physically, not on phone.You must have dated before the person travels then you keep communicating. You can carry the feelings with you for as long as love and trust will permit but to start afresh over the phone or mails is like deceiving each other because one person is bound not to believe totally that the other person truly loves.If you have never been friends,dont do it.
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Re: Having ur spouse abroad, How good is it?
« Reply #10 on: March 06, 2008, 06:30:18 PM »
i agree with you Kate but some dating start no line and its works.
but most is seeing each other every now and then if one truly want that relationship . ;D ;D ;D

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Re: Having ur spouse abroad, How good is it?
« Reply #11 on: March 06, 2008, 08:42:36 PM »
Fred sharrap :P

we live in the same house ;D
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Re: Having ur spouse abroad, How good is it?
« Reply #12 on: March 06, 2008, 10:06:21 PM »
Mukina where is the house except if two of u belong to the airforce

@topic Most people that are in to such actually dont plan it, its either u are outside and u feel u have to marry from home, next thing is to start making arrangment for her papers which myt take years

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Re: Having ur spouse abroad, How good is it?
« Reply #13 on: March 06, 2008, 10:24:01 PM »
the house is at home ;D
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Re: Having ur spouse abroad, How good is it?
« Reply #14 on: March 06, 2008, 10:39:02 PM »
Na u sabi

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Re: Having ur spouse abroad, How good is it?
« Reply #15 on: March 09, 2008, 02:48:38 PM »
Hope dis penthome is human and not a virus? ??? ???

I would not advise anyone to have a long distance relationship.. if you can handle it... Good for you...

I agree with Omotola. Although its not an easy task, if you are in it, it requires trust, love and maturity.


good question
it all depend on the people involved, there has to be love, trust and understanding. i wouldnt be in a long distance relationship with someone i DO NOT know, or HAVENT spent time with. trust me ko make sence rara
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Re: Having ur spouse abroad, How good is it?
« Reply #16 on: March 09, 2008, 11:24:34 PM »
Zaynies how many years do u have to spend with a guy b4 u can bodly say u know him?

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Re: Having ur spouse abroad, How good is it?
« Reply #17 on: March 11, 2008, 08:24:56 PM »
the mere fact that i have seen him before, is enough for me
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« Reply #18 on: March 11, 2008, 10:29:33 PM »
Okay o, i gree

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Re: Having ur spouse abroad, How good is it?
« Reply #19 on: March 12, 2008, 10:41:09 AM »
I go with Chris: the closer the better
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Re: Having ur spouse abroad, How good is it?
« Reply #20 on: March 12, 2008, 08:22:28 PM »
the closer the better yeah. but somedqy he will have to go.. will the love end that day.. >:( >:(
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Re: Having ur spouse abroad, How good is it?
« Reply #21 on: March 13, 2008, 07:18:54 AM »
Thats true...its reality we have to face.The world is very much a global village.PPl leave the shores of the country to chase greener pastures.We should look at victims of away marriages with pity instead of scorn.No one grows up praying to marry someone who will always be miles away, except for once a year physical contact! :o May we not see it in our lives in Jesus name...someone say AMEN!
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Re: Having ur spouse abroad, How good is it?
« Reply #22 on: March 13, 2008, 08:04:17 AM »
I dont understand ur prayers. cos sometimes it just has to happen for u to move forward.

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Re: Having ur spouse abroad, How good is it?
« Reply #23 on: March 14, 2008, 09:38:39 AM »
Don't blame it on the devil when it happens.
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« Reply #24 on: March 14, 2008, 06:34:12 PM »
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« Reply #25 on: March 15, 2008, 01:48:45 PM »
Don't blame it on the devil when it happens.

blame what on the devil????????, well guess its an immature undecided mind that cant stand a break. whats wrong if ones spouse is gone for sometime
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« Reply #26 on: April 05, 2008, 08:53:43 AM »
blame what on the devil????????, well guess its an immature undecided mind that cant stand a break. whats wrong if ones spouse is gone for sometime

The cold, the side attractions, the oppression from neighbours and movies... chai, ask Fikky ;D
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« Reply #27 on: April 14, 2008, 08:00:06 PM »
yeah rite..
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