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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #30 on: March 25, 2008, 03:33:58 PM »
but they said that for better for worse now maybe for romance but for marriage its forever.
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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #31 on: March 26, 2008, 01:22:07 PM »
 :)
THis issue is vry common in homes/marriages.
Dad mit take 2-4hrs b4 he's satsfied
mum mit jst nid 1.30mins
so dad gets frustrated
or
d otha way round

if ds conts
and no communcations on ds

he/she seeks 4 help utside
....d otha realizes n then maybe

breakup..!!

yup, it is enuf 2 brekup if a certain level of communication is not attained.

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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #32 on: March 26, 2008, 01:37:09 PM »
define am na :-\

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It's in explicable.... ;D
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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #33 on: March 26, 2008, 02:17:44 PM »
Gyan, maybe dad and mom can seek extra help, like get a houseboy or housegirl to help out on extra marital load, you know, that way, if dad can take on 2, he takes mom first and rounds up and if mom is the loch ness, she takes dad first and houseboy will lose blood next, that way they can sustain the relationship. ;D
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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #34 on: March 26, 2008, 04:40:08 PM »
Good sugestion!  ;D
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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #35 on: March 27, 2008, 03:11:57 AM »
I cant believe u both r from the same group :o :o

Pent, Slimmy realistically, will you like it if per adventure you find urself in this kinda situation n ur spouse is making up with anoda person?
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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #36 on: March 27, 2008, 03:26:39 PM »

dat situation will never come!
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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #37 on: March 27, 2008, 07:19:29 PM »
Dat is y u should Test drive...

Don't u think so?
Test drive? Was this what you had in mind?


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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #38 on: March 27, 2008, 11:34:02 PM »
Another alternative-- Burantachi and pepper for the lady

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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #39 on: March 28, 2008, 01:27:48 AM »
The side effect of Burantachi is said to be disastrous. I've heard of a case of a man that died as a result of strained veins in his penis region for excess hours of errection.

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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #40 on: March 28, 2008, 06:29:38 AM »
I think most of the people here are not married that is why.Sex and marriage depend on each other but not all that sex sex sex like you people are painting it.maybe when you have kids or you are burdened with life's issues,work,family and so many things you will hardly think about sex and even then it wont be what you think.If your partner had a hectic day at work he or she will not be able to do well that night and you have to understand the reason.
sex is not everything especially when you start having troublesome kids who want attention all the time.
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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #41 on: March 28, 2008, 11:27:29 AM »
miss kate or is it mrs kate i want to know if you are married please,then weshall continue with this issue.
of course we know about all these but what we are saying is no body wants to have a partner that can't or performs poorly on bed,no body has that patience to lecture a grown up adult on natural thing,not in thie our generation but that does not mean one should go all the way to obalande for practice or test drive and land in soup.
 

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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #42 on: March 28, 2008, 12:03:23 PM »
Obalande? Are u in KD?

Mrs Kate, if its not all about sex or if poeple get tired of sex, why is it that married men still go out in search for small gals, despite the fact that issues of life like work family and trouble some kids are still there?

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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #43 on: March 28, 2008, 01:06:20 PM »
Obalande? Are u in KD?

Mrs Kate, if its not all about sex or if poeple get tired of sex, why is it that married men still go out in search for small gals, despite the fact that issues of life like work family and trouble some kids are still there?

Dadp, you took the words right outta my mouth.

If your spouse comes home daily complaining of stress/backpain, loss of appetite .... Omo run to a white garment church ASAP and seek Nollywood assistant.

There's obviously fire on the mountain. Na gangsta be that o and person go wound if care is not taken. Junior is seeing another mummy. Watch out.
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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #44 on: March 28, 2008, 03:31:16 PM »
Dat one no be problem cos African men are cheaters. :)
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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #45 on: March 28, 2008, 06:43:30 PM »
This issue of one gender accusing the others sha. Humans are cheaters, don't point fingers. However a higher percentage of men cheat in marriage in Africa. In Yankee, I don't know o but on Cheaters (Reality TV), most cheaters are women (in marriage).

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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #46 on: March 29, 2008, 09:06:38 AM »
Gbam!

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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #47 on: March 29, 2008, 08:18:30 PM »
thats why is good to have many wives so you wont care who is cheating

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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #48 on: March 29, 2008, 09:08:18 PM »
With many wives, some other problems greater than cheating will come now

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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #49 on: March 30, 2008, 12:01:50 AM »
more children and slaves to the society.

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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #50 on: March 31, 2008, 11:13:45 AM »
rather criminals in the society because as a father of two dozens children you don't give a damn on how they feed or how they live their lifestyle,what he is interested is his women adding more number of kids for him,school,clothing,feeding,shelter and upbring is left to their mothers to take care of while he seats on the couch thinking of whom next to bombard the coming night.

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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #51 on: March 31, 2008, 12:15:31 PM »

Exactly!  ;D  ;D  :D
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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #52 on: April 05, 2008, 08:52:58 AM »
Spot on right there ngslide, that is a typical African Man/ Alhaji  :D ;D :D
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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #53 on: April 05, 2008, 10:55:04 AM »
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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #54 on: April 06, 2008, 08:49:00 AM »
But notfor a rich Alhaji anyway

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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #55 on: April 07, 2008, 04:44:10 PM »
rich and intelligent is what you should call them,not all are like that in africa,any thing western is a taboo to the rich illiterate while their educated counterpart are busy sending thir kids to school to be westernized.

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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #56 on: April 07, 2008, 07:18:12 PM »
humm

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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #57 on: April 18, 2008, 09:59:18 PM »
Ngslide,

Most of them spend all the money on big colleges still they come out confused cos education just isn't everything!

Learn from the mistakes of people around you.

Westernization brought us a whole lot of good but on the downside, we got HIV and few virgins nowadays  ;D (excluding you of course!)
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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #58 on: April 19, 2008, 04:40:05 PM »

Word! ;D
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Re: Is poor romance/sex enough to break up a relationship or marriage?
« Reply #59 on: April 21, 2008, 07:54:44 AM »
how are you antie slimmy