Topic: WHY IS DATING A POPULAR PERSON SO COMPLICATED? (Read 3486 times)

light of christ · « **on:** July 03, 2009, 10:47:11 PM »

Don't understand any of these things any more.God help!

Penthome · « **Reply #1 on:** July 04, 2009, 12:59:53 AM »

Let the rich date the rich, the actor for the actress, the princess for the prince and let the Agege boy hold on to his Mushin girl cos when you cross roads, what you get is Princess Di and Prince Charles or Kimora Lee and Russel Simmons, you get the drift?

freddiewit · « **Reply #2 on:** July 04, 2009, 10:36:29 AM »

Quote from: Penthome on July 04, 2009, 12:59:53 AM

cos when you cross roads, what you get is Princess Di and Prince Charles or Kimora Lee and Russel Simmons, you get the drift?

Pent, you no serious o...

light of christ · « **Reply #3 on:** July 04, 2009, 03:57:23 PM »

Huh!

Well, I think that's how d platform of love & life is-Stratified Classes . Well, I think d upper class most times are grossly misunderstood. The rich also cry! Esp where love and money are interchangeable.

Penthome · « **Reply #4 on:** July 04, 2009, 10:55:25 PM »

I know of close friend who got himself a ghetto girl and brought her up to his level, they got married had kids and having tasted the rich life, she travelled out with the kids and refused to come back, she is the centre of attraction at all owambe parties and all that.

Having married him abroad, she knows how much she stands to gain if he resorts to divorce, now she calls the shots. A gal out of the gutter now running things and biting the fingers that fed her.

It's the same when a guy decides to pay his gf's schoolfees throughout school only for her to graduate and bring home a younger and finer bobo. Cut your coat...

light of christ · « **Reply #5 on:** July 05, 2009, 03:47:48 PM »

Yeah! really! cut your coat according to your throat!
wise saying

WatchULukin4 · « **Reply #6 on:** July 06, 2009, 12:45:03 AM »

as far as im concerned, ko follow!
but im not gon' get in2 dis again. we've been der done dat.

light of christ · « **Reply #7 on:** July 06, 2009, 09:19:43 AM »

done what? Been waiting for u sweet!

Quote from: sweetsoul on July 06, 2009, 12:45:03 AM

as far as im concerned, ko follow!
but im not gon' get in2 dis again. we've been der done dat.

light of christ · « **Reply #8 on:** July 06, 2009, 09:39:21 AM »

eh Pent, is it raincoat or coat that we should cut pls?

Penthome · « **Reply #9 on:** July 06, 2009, 03:27:33 PM »

Sweetz is tryna talk from experience. She's been dere done dat, she's dated a star before and guess what happened? You guessed right. That's why she's scared of stars like us, you see the origin of the phobia?

WatchULukin4 · « **Reply #10 on:** July 07, 2009, 01:06:26 AM »

hey Light' jus 4 u. (cos im ignorin bonehead's comment) i'm not gettin involvd in dis thread bcos
*its been discussed on RM n i alredi gav ma tuts.
*i think d topic asks d wrong question... ill accept 'wy is dating so complicated' or wat complicates relationships btwn stars n non-stars (or wateva u call dem)...or sumthin along those lines. ur question assumes dat datin a popular person is always so complicated. ope u get ma drift sha. no energy 2nite 2 be articulate.

light of christ · « **Reply #11 on:** July 07, 2009, 02:45:56 PM »

Quote from: Penthome on July 06, 2009, 03:27:33 PM

Sweetz is tryna talk from experience. She's been dere done dat, she's dated a star before and guess what happened? You guessed right. That's why she's scared of stars like us, you see the origin of the phobia?

Is that a tacit way of avoiding d question, sweet?

light of christ · « **Reply #12 on:** July 07, 2009, 02:50:40 PM »

Sweet girl, since it's been discussed on RB, then I think U should de-brief me or post me d link, since I'm new to RB.
Na beg I dey beg o! Mama lawyer!
And I asked Pent to shield me, I really don't know how effective he has been. Pent, wetin u dey do now?

light of christ · « **Reply #13 on:** July 07, 2009, 03:00:22 PM »

As regards to d question Lawyer Sweet, my foundamental human rights include freedom of speech and that includes my right to phrase or re-phrase my questions. lol!

but really, I wanted some advise because it had to do with something personal to me. U get my gist now? I mentioned love , power, money being interchangeable. not essentially stars, Pent even got me wrong there 2... Have u been there?

WatchULukin4 · « **Reply #14 on:** July 07, 2009, 07:49:39 PM »

ok Light, i apologise if im not takin dis issue serious enuf.
i jus dont do too gud wit general questions or stereotype comments.
luv can be complicated, datin can be confusin. but in my opinion, complications are caused by a combination of factors.
to be absolutely honest, im not sure i 'get' d question.

Penthome · « **Reply #15 on:** July 08, 2009, 09:18:37 PM »

Light? Can you see she's still "avoiding the question"?

Switz read Light's last "quote" again the question (or allegation) is obvious

Omotola · « **Reply #16 on:** July 09, 2009, 11:08:03 AM »

are we not human beins no matter how much we have or popular we have become overnight

light of christ · « **Reply #17 on:** July 09, 2009, 01:12:27 PM »

Yea, I see she's avoiding the question, High Chief. What do we do to penalise her?

Omo T , u r absolutely right?

Penthome · « **Reply #18 on:** July 09, 2009, 02:33:39 PM »

Don't worry, Switz will read all over again and hopefully, she'll take note of the phrase she's been avoiding.

And OmoT, we are human beings but the moment the media takes interest in you, you become an alien, everyone wants 2 take pictures with u, have your autograph and read about you just because you are no longer normal like them, you have gone mad!

freddiewit · « **Reply #19 on:** July 09, 2009, 03:32:10 PM »

It's so complicated because the person you are dating is popular.

Penthome · « **Reply #20 on:** July 10, 2009, 08:56:05 AM »

Popularity comes with media interest and the other person feeling like they aren't just humans anymore and starts seeing themselves as gods and all of a sudden, you are the one who's tryna hold on.

WatchULukin4 · « **Reply #21 on:** July 10, 2009, 11:23:02 PM »

Quote from: light of christ on July 07, 2009, 03:00:22 PM

As regards to d question Lawyer Sweet, my foundamental human rights include freedom of speech and that includes my right to phrase or re-phrase my questions. lol! but really, I wanted some advise because it had to do with something personal to me. U get my gist now? I mentioned love , power, money being interchangeable. not essentially stars, Pent even got me wrong there 2... Have u been there?

i ope im gettin it rite dis time...im really lost ere guys. i knw sum ppl r havin a field day from my confusion. na God big pass!

yes!...i've been der...as in ive dated a 'popular' person before.
no! it wasnt complicated. at all. well, not d popularity bit anyway.

light of christ · « **Reply #22 on:** July 11, 2009, 12:17:26 AM »

What if U are d one who is popular and U can't really find one who is real? Very plastic people! For love of fame and affluence. Just got d shock of my life d other day! Got back from a trip, and found out something very sad! Crazy! crazy!! Crazy!!! Not sure anyone would understand! Thanks though

light of christ · « **Reply #23 on:** July 11, 2009, 12:33:05 AM »

Quote from: sweetsoul on July 10, 2009, 11:23:02 PM

i ope im gettin it rite dis time...im really lost ere guys. i knw sum ppl r havin a field day from my confusion. na God big pass!

I'm sorry sweet, for the confusion, okay?
Fred, No comment!

Quote from: Penthome on July 10, 2009, 08:56:05 AM
the other person feeling like they aren't just humans anymore and starts seeing themselves as gods and all of a sudden, you are the one who's tryna hold on.

What if it's d other way around, we don't often think that way, that d other fella, "d popular one" is in chains, and is tryin to hold on? Esp if d fella is a child of God? Pent, na d thin wey kill MJ o!

WatchULukin4 · « **Reply #24 on:** July 11, 2009, 05:36:47 AM »

mm okayyy...

Quote from: light of christ on July 11, 2009, 12:17:26 AM

What if U are d one who is popular and U can't really find one who is real? Very plastic people! For love of fame and affluence. Just got d shock of my life d other day! Got back from a trip, and found out something very sad! Crazy! crazy!! Crazy!!! Not sure anyone would understand! Thanks though

well, ve never been famous or extremely popular so i cant claim to understand. but i can identify wit d shock bit.

famous or not, ul always get shocked once or twice in life. people u trust will let u down, sum1 u care about may payback sour, ppl wu should know u better r sumtimes first to cast d stone. people are not perfect so dey r bound 2 let u down even those wit d best intentions.

d nonentity thinks its bcos he's a nobody. d wealthy think its bcos dey r rich. na! its bcos we liv in a currupt world...even d bible says it.

in my opinion...d only way to avoid crisis/complication/stress in relationship is to allow God at d centre of d relationship. God is Love so NO ONE can eva love u enuf if dey dnt hav d love of God...dey jus wuldn know how.
dat goes 4 u. dat goes for dem.

Penthome · « **Reply #25 on:** July 11, 2009, 09:10:34 AM »

Hmmm Counsellor, Papa Adeboye pikin, ride on gal, i dey gbadun ya posts (hope u do as u preach), 2GB!

iice · « **Reply #26 on:** July 12, 2009, 04:34:09 PM »

@Topic
Is it? $:-\$

Penthome · « **Reply #27 on:** July 12, 2009, 05:52:10 PM »

@ iice,

Have you? Cos only then can we say it is or it isn't. I havent, I wont!

WatchULukin4 · « **Reply #28 on:** July 13, 2009, 12:47:12 AM »

Quote from: Penthome on July 11, 2009, 09:10:34 AM

(hope u do as u preach)

i try.

light of christ · « **Reply #29 on:** July 13, 2009, 11:21:39 AM »

Thanks Sweet.

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